Guys today i thought to share with you something out of the regular stuff i post. You all are my small world , wherein everybody is neutral in their thoughts, nobody is passing any judgement, hence i feel that no other platform could work better than sharing views over here and reaching out millions. Before i begin with the relevance of Don’t Give up, i would like to draw your attention to one of the past blog postshttps://www.lovethemirrorz.com/2018/07/26/being-positive-in-life/ , because this would help you more to connect to the topic i am discussing today.
DON’T GIVE UP
Based on my own experiences in life, there are ready situations which are thrown to you to give up, waive your hand, surrender, and very less opportunities to stay calm, patient and less reactive in these times…Don’t take it as mere words, i have experienced the same many times and therefore today i was bound to talk about it.
NO CHALLENGES NO SUCCESS
Folks, We often come across people suffering with acute depression, have no hopes from life, and find ways to mark a full stop. But let me tell you by doing this, you are showing the mental weakness, your in capabilities are superseding the capabilities. People have rightly said that success is followed by several failures.
The first failure indicates the path of success, but in between you get multiple obstacles, hindrances, which often leads to give up or depression, but those who holds patience and continues to be focused and determined with high degree of positivity eventually comes out to succeed. This theory applies to the goals of life and to the whole life with each tiny step.
The day i came into my senses, attained maturity, i realized and thanked god for making me blessed with a wonderful family, the feel of incredible bond, that we shared. But then, God knew that this family is so strong that they can accept the challenges of life and hence at a very young age, we were plattered with the first and heart drenching incident of my father being paralyzed and bed ridden for good 12-14 years, which almost took away the best phase of my life yet i cherish those times as i started spending more time with him and sharing the pious bond of a daughter and her father. Our family accepted the way , god wanted us to be. After so many years, just 4 months before my wedding, i lost my father, that shattered me completely, broken into pieces… The girls biggest dream of getting married to the love of her life was in vein. Nothing could bring smile. It took years to accept the fact that he is not physically present, yet mentally with us forever.
I went into severe depression with a side effect of huge hair fall, extreme weight loss, almost left anemic just a month before my marriage, where you are considered to be the attention grabber.
Everything happened the way it was destined to be, but i was falling over places. The only desire i was left with is to get my father back.
One fine day, i asked a question – what the heck i am doing? Is my father really happy seeing me like this? I lost my father, which no body could even think as a night mare , but the another reality was that i was spoiling my married life, my birth as a human, and hence i took a big sigh and decided to hold the memories in my heart forever, making him my biggest strength and living my life ahead.
Since that day till now, there is no single day where i don’t remember him. Each day looking at my mother with no spark on her face kills me deep inside.
The only thing to do is to look at God and say we accept it with a smile.
This is one of the incident that tought me the importance of life and the relevance of living it rather surviving.
Guys the idea of sharing is to make you all realize that please accept the challenges , and keep moving. If you have a set goal, focus on it and more than being hardworking, be consistent with what you are doing, and the outcome is bound to touch the feet.
Don’t be self centered, and before taking a big step, think about the closed ones , you leaving behind.
Fight for your goal….. be consistent…. the result would be right in front of you.